Hi!
As you already have discovered you can't connect the Jeti HF to the port the original MPX-modul is normally placed if the sofware is 3.0 or higher. This is because when MULTILEX introduced the M-LINK-HFM4 module this module has no longer used a PPM-signal which enabled a realtime corresponding of the R and the HF-modul. But the Jeti-Module is based on the PPM-signal.
The way E-Segler has suggested is possible but needs a bit of soldering work on the DIN-connector from inside the RX if you don't want to establish a solution where the HF-Module is placed autoside the RX. You only have to find the right pins or ccontators according to the wiring scheme E-Segler has provided.
so long
profimc